Rachel Kramer Bussel (www.rachelkramerbussel.com) is a New York-based writer, editor, blogger, and reading series host. She's edited numerous anthologies, including Best Sex Writing 2008, Hide and Seek, Caught Looking, She's on Top, He's on Top, Crossdressing, and Naughty Spanking Stories from A to Z 1 and 2, and her own fiction has been published in over 100 collections, including Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006. She hosts the monthly In The Flesh Reading Series and wrote the popular Lusty Lady column for the Village Voice. She's written for AVN, Bust, Cosmo UK, Gothamist, Mediabistro, Metro, Newsday, New York Post, Penthouse, San Francisco Chronicle, Time Out New York, Zink and other publications. She blogs at Lusty Lady and Cupcakes Take the Cake.

Blog Entries by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Exclusive: New York Times Reporter Benoit Denizet-Lewis Talks Addiction, Recovery, Drug Policy, Obama and America Anonymous

Posted January 2, 2009 | 10:46 AM (EST)


New York Times journalist Benoit Denizet-Lewis is a sex addict. That is a fact he openly discloses at the start of his excellent new book America Anonymous: Eight Addicts in Search of a Life. Now that I have your attention, I can also tell you that it was...

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Best Sex Writing 2009 Interview: Susannah Breslin on Eliot Spitzer and prostitution

Posted December 30, 2008 | 05:24 PM (EST)


My name is Rachel, and I write about sex (among other topics). A lot of my writing is of the erotic variety, but what really gets me off, in the intellectual sense, is smart writing that treats sex with the respect it deserves. To that end, my latest anthology is...

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How Many Partners Makes You Promiscuous?: More On The Never-Ending Debate

Posted August 7, 2008 | 08:30 AM (EST)


I'm not going to tell you exactly how many people I've slept with, partly because I don't know, partly because I stopped caring long ago, and partly because it's none of your business. But I will tell you it's more than French First Lady Carla Bruni's reported number: 15. Way...

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Kerry Cohen On Her Publishing And Her Promiscuous Past

Posted June 6, 2008 | 03:06 PM (EST)


As soon as I got a copy of Kerry Cohen's Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity, in the mail, I knew it would be one I'd want to read. Because that's the kind of book I tend to fall for. What I didn't know was how much I'd relate...

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Knocked Up and Proud: Louise Sloan, Single Mother By Choice

Posted March 26, 2008 | 03:24 PM (EST)


New York-based writer and editor Louise Sloan didn't set out to be come a single mom, let alone a spokesperson for them. She knew she wanted kids at the age of 28, but her various partners weren't quite ready. When she hit 40, she knew it was time to proceed...

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How Not to Date - An Interview with Judy McGuire

Posted February 13, 2008 | 03:31 PM (EST)


Judy McGuire is who I turn to when I am having relationship problems, and believe me, I have a lot of them. She has a way of giving advice that is never condescending, comes from the heart, and experience, and is actually helpful, which isn't anywhere as easy as it...

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Sex Doesn't Need to be Sensationalized

Posted January 25, 2008 | 12:52 PM (EST)


I wasn't surprised to read that newly hired and newly resigned New York Press sex columnist, former child actor Claudia Lonow, had plagiarized her writing from popular sex advice columnist Dan Savage. (Savage has no official comment at present.) When I read the incest question she answered...

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2008, One Day At A Time

Posted January 3, 2008 | 12:31 AM (EST)


Editor's Note: Dr. Mona Ackerman is on vacation. Her weekly column will return next Thursday.

When I was growing up, One Day at a Time was a TV show; now, it's a motto I try to live by. A catchphrase and major tenet of Alcoholics Anonymous, it's also provided...

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2008, One Day at a Time

Posted December 31, 2007 | 07:21 PM (EST)


When I was growing up, One Day at a Time was a TV show; now, it's a motto I try to live by. A catchphrase and major tenet of Alcoholics Anonyous, it's also provided for me a way of looking at life that recognizes that life goes on, whether...

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The Case For Open Relationships

Posted December 10, 2007 | 07:03 AM (EST)


Matt Titus's recent post "How to Be Faithful" struck a nerve with readers. And it's something I've thought a good deal about, so I decided to look not at monogamy as a goal, but as a social construct. First let me say that if you are in a monogamous...

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Am I A Sex Addict? Are You?

Posted November 26, 2007 | 03:13 PM (EST)


Kevin Federline accused Britney Spears of being one, Gerald Ford thought Bill Clinton was one (and Clinton has had counseling for it), British comedian Russell Brand just came out as one, and Halle Berry's ex-husband Eric Benet sought treatment for it. But who's really...

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Don't Pass the Buck When It Comes to Selling Your Book

Posted September 24, 2007 | 11:38 AM (EST)


As an author, perhaps I'm supposed to side with doom-filled writer Peter Sacks in the, "Isn't it awful how few people read and how America is becoming dumbed down?" conundrum, but while I can't quite imagine how one gets through a day, let alone a year, without reading, the rest...

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Part Two: Interview with Flying Filmmaker, Jennifer Fox

Posted July 18, 2007 | 06:18 PM (EST)


Part two of my interview with filmmaker Jennifer Fox, director of the recent Flying: Confessions of a Free Woman. Read part 1 here.

You talk about investigating "this modern female life," so I'm curious how you felt about the contrast between your New York life and that...

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My Interview With Documentary Filmmaker Jennifer Fox

Posted July 13, 2007 | 05:19 PM (EST)


Filmmaker Jennifer Fox's six-hour documentary Flying: Confessions of a Free Women, represents the first time the acclaimed director has allowed herself to step in front of the camera, baring (almost) all about her family, friendships, and romantic relationships. She's already detailed here at HuffPo her evolution as...

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Weight Lifting Shapes the Mind and the Body

Posted July 9, 2007 | 09:04 PM (EST)


What I'm about to write I would've found obnoxious and pretentious mere months ago but lately seem to tell everyone who so much as asks me how I'm doing: I have a personal trainer. Even now, it sounds like saying I have a chauffeur or money manager or lawyer; there's...

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Banning "Bad" Books Is Not the Answer

Posted June 28, 2007 | 03:28 PM (EST)


When I read about PABBIS (Parents Against Bad Books in Schools), I couldn't help but be intrigued. What's a "bad" book? I'm sure you have an answer to that, as do I, but for this group, "bad" isn't a subjective opinion about whether or not you enjoyed a particular...

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Interview With Anna David: Party Girl

Posted June 20, 2007 | 04:40 PM (EST)


Anna David now considers herself a "reformed party girl," but not all that long ago, she thought nothing of getting high, getting drunk, and partying her ass off, all while writing for publications such as Parenting and People. Now sober, the West Hollywood-based journalist, blogger, and talking head brings us...

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Is There Such a Thing as "Porn for Women?"

Posted June 11, 2007 | 01:05 PM (EST)


Disclaimer: Some links in this blog lead to pornographic images.

A new, 98 page book simply titled Porn for Women from Chronicle Books is causing a stir with its racy images . . . but not in the way you might think. Instead of full frontal nudity, the book...

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Interview With Lynn Harris: Death By Chick Lit

Posted June 5, 2007 | 03:03 PM (EST)


As author Lynn Harris' second novel, Death by Chick Lit, gets ready to mock both its title genre and its critics, which have seen plenty of action right here, Huffington Post emailed Harris, a frequent contributor to Nerve.com, Salon, and Glamour, about chick lit as a "McFeminist"...

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Plan B Crucial in Fight for Reproductive Rights

Posted December 8, 2006 | 02:56 PM (EST)


The day after Thanksgiving, I sat holding my friend's four-month-old baby as we talked about birth control--mine, hers, and the political landscape around preventing pregnancy. She started to tell me how her views on the topic had changed, and I felt sure she was going to say that her pro-choice...

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